My life is absolutely fantastic, and I love being a cockteasing Sensual Mistress. The majority of my phone sex sessions are wonderful. They keep me entertained, laughing, and still shocked at the creativity.

But, I will confess that I have had a small,tiny percentage of phone sessions, that were not enjoyable at all. I appreciate guys who are willing to try new things, and experiment. I don’t like guys who call saying they want to please me, and have no clue about what that entails.

And pleasing a Mistress means you have to take the time to know what she likes. Read her blog, e-mail her, and talk to her on yahoo instant messenger. That gives you a good idea about her. But even doing all of that won’t tell you everything you need to know. I don’t talk about half of the things I do on this blog. I take pleasure in many different fetishes, so unless you are multi-talented, you can never completely please me.

I absolutely dislike guys who call and say “I want to be dominated or humiliated”, without elaborating on what that means to them. There are so many ways to be dominated, from cock control to queening to cuckolding.  And there are a variety of ways for me to humiliate someone from public humiliation to small cock humiliation. It’s never one size fits all.

I understand a guy who isn’t sure about what he wants, or a guy experimenting trying to find out what he likes.  Those calls are the most enjoyable because we get to explore different scenarios together.

And I can understand shy callers. I have one caller who said almost nothing, on our first call. I realized he was a bit shy, and on our next call, I was able to draw him out of his shell. Now we have wonderful calls together.

I enjoy the stranger fantasies. And I confess that I really love fantasies that include either science fiction or comic book elements. I did 2 of those this week; and in 1 fantasy I used a dildo made of kryptonite on my nemesis. It was a blast!